I’ve been sitting on this post for awhile, hoping to expand it into something more elaborate perhaps even an essay. Realistically though, I won’t have the time in the near future, so here it is, unpolished. There’s a lot more to this movie than what I’m touching on here below. In any case, this is my starting point. I’m hoping to return to some of the themes discussed later.

Director Jason Reitman says about his movie adapted from the book Up In The Air by Walter Kirn that ‘The movie is about the examination of a philosophy. What if you decided to live hub to hub, with nothing, with nobody?’ Here I consider this what-if exactly from a philosphical point of view. And if it is about a philosophy, what kind are we talking about? There are several major themes in this movie. One is the obvious one which is about work and the financial crisis. The documentary style filming of people responding to their lay-off picks this theme up convincingly in as much that on occassion I was wondering whether these we’re real interviews. Another theme, slightly less obvious, is about intimacy and its destructive nature. In what follows I’ll refer to a philosophy of intimacy what sociologist Richard Sennett calls: ‘an ideology of intimacy’.

Richard Sennett describes the ‘tyranny of intimacy’ as a tyrannical order in ordinary life. This tyranny boils down to the domination of a principle which takes on the shape and content of a sovereign power. It’s not unlike the Hobbesian leviathan, a deus in terris, who exerts his power through violence. In the same way habits can become a source of tyranny. Habits or standardizations in general beget what Sennett’s calls a ‘seductive power’ over us: we want a single authority to stand over us. The tyranny of intimacy consists of ‘the arousing of a belief in one standard of truth to measure the complexities of social reality’ and furthermore ‘it is the measurement of society in psychological terms.’
The net result of the intimate order is twofold according to Sennett. First, we are increasingly obsessed with motivation. And secondly, disclosure of one’s true feelings becomes destructive. In Sennett’s own words: ‘Narcissism is mobilized in social relations, and the experience of disclosure of one’s feelings to other becomes destructive.’
This picture painted by Sennett acts as an almost seemless background in Reitman’s film starring George Clooney (Ryan Bingham) and an outstanding Vera Farmiga (Alex). Clooney plays Ryan Bingham, a lay-off expert, or as he is euphemistically called: a Career Transition Counselor. He and his firm are called in to expertly and discreetly lay-off people. This background integrated into the financial crisis and the resulting unemployment crisis function together as the backdrop against which Bingham’s narrative unfolds. He is constantly travelling, constantly up in the air, moving between cities across the United States. He touches ground only to lay off people and off he goes again. Not surprisingly then, ‘to know me is to fly with me’ is Bingham’s adagium.
Bingham’s lifestyle demands that everything around him is standardized up to the point that the standard becomes a fetish. Needless to say that this kind of fetishization is symptomatically shown as an obsession with brands. For instance Bingham will always insist on a particular brand that will enable his goal to achieve friction-free movement through life, since as he relays in the film somewhere, ‘Moving is living’. His suitcase, his suits, his shoes, the rental car he drives etc. etc. Everthing must be a standard. Furthermore everything only has value to Bingham in as far as it conforms to a measure of standardization namely frequent flyer miles. His obsession to gain 1 million miles is not just a gimmick. The 1 million mark is a quantification of the standards to which Bingham adheres, religiously so, which then becomes the measure of ‘the complexities of the social’. If something does not provide him with miles, it is of no value to him. In a way loyalty to a brand, to a standard, is represented by this number. Loyalty is earned and rewarded as Bingham explains with small ‘systemized friendly touches that keep [his world] in orbit’: swiping his card at various intersections on his travels always relay back the same, predictable repsonse. (But strangely, and perhaps telling, is Bingham’s inability to understand another one of these systemized touches: when a stewardess asks Bingham: “would you like the can, Sir” Bingham misunderstands and instead hears: “Would you like cancer?”). Everything then becomes measured in terms of how many miles it generates. Is is not precisely the ‘measure of society in psychological terms’ as Sennett calls it? As a measure – another way of thinking of a standard – is it not also a limit or boundary? In Kirn’s book we read for instance that Bingham says that the mark provides him with a boundary in life something which he apparently needs.
A returning theme in the film is Bingham sidejob as motivational speaker. Bingham’s job revolves around motivating the people he lays of to accept their predicament however great the tragedy and to move on with as little fuss as possible. He doesn’t do this for altruistic reason of course, but simply because it comes with the job to smooth the exit.
Bingham expertly wields the power of bureaucracy in his layoff conversations. It all ends in handing over a package containing documents to the ‘victim’. The package functions as something tangable people can hang on to. Something that will help them get back on their feet. Or so they are supposed to believe. What’s interesting to me is how Bingham’s job as a motivator and motivational speaker connects back to Sennett. From Bingham’s many conversations with the people he lays off, what sticks out is his delibarate aim to focus them not on what they have done, their productivity or performance. In other words, the quality of their jobs. None of that is important. What really matters
is the quantitative aspect namely that jobs have to be cut.
Bingham is quite good at these motivational conversations. So good that he does them on his own account in front of larger audience. This is how the film starts; with the question: “How much does your life weigh?” (Check the speech here)
Imagine for a second that you’re carrying a backpack….I want you to feel the straps on your shoulders….You feel them?
Now, I want you to pack it with all the stuff you have in your life. Start with the little things. The stuff in drawers and on shelves. The collectables and knick-knacks. Feel the weight as it adds up. Now, start adding the larger stuff. You clothes, table top applicances, lamps, linens, your TV. That backpack should be getting pretty heavy at this point – Go Bigger. Your couch, your bed, your kitchen table. Stuff it al in … Your car, get it in there…. Your home, whether you have a studio apartment or a two story house, I want you to stuff in into that backpack.
Now try to walk….
Kinda hard, isn’t it? This is what we do to ourselves on a daily basis. We weigh ourselves down until we can’t even move. And make no mistake – Moving is living.
Bingham’s motivational talk ‘What’s in your backpack’ acts as an allegory for his aversion for the tyranny of intimacy. In this capacity it shows what Sennett describes as our obsession with motivation, a result/effect of relations being based on tyranical intimacy: ‘the suspension of ego interests has grown into a systematic encouragement of narcisstic absorption by centering social transactions on an obsession with motivation’.
Bingham asks his audience to image putting everything they care about including their relations with other people in the backpack. The backpack then becomes to heavy to carry. The thought-experiment continues when Bingham asks what you would take out to make it lighter. In particular he asks to take out photos of past events and to burn them. This is precisely what Sennett is asking us to do: culture, society and the intimacy of the family is what makes us heavy and instills a fatalistic sense of regret, a dangerous longing for things past. Incidently, when watching Pixar-Disney’s Up I was reminded again of this weight theme so to speak: Mr. Fredrikson’s house will only become airborne if Mr. Fredikson empties it, literally, of all memories. He has to dump all furniture, pictures etc. from the house. Fredrikson’s living room literally becomes a moving room: ‘moving is living’. Is this not what Marx meant, as Marshall Berman reminds us, when he writes that ‘all that is solid melts into air’ in the Communist Manifesto? Are standards not another kind of solid? Ossified habits, coagulated masses, patterns of intimacy?

The burning of memories, the photos, takes us up another related theme (incidently, perhaps ironically, in Kirn’s book Bingham tells us he started out as a salesman, selling (computer) memory). Bingham is asked by his sister to carry around with him a cardboard cutout of his other sister and her soon to be husband so that Bingham can take those cheesy, fake vacation spot photos. At the wedding, when Bingham puts up the photos on a map of the US, his sister tells him that they can’t afford a proper wedding trip so instead they asked for these pictures which is believed to offer a consolation by providing the illusion that they did travel to all those places for real. A beautiful example of defensive disavowal.
This thread, weaved throughout the movie (Bingham travelling around taking the cutout with him to take picture something which genuinly upset his aim for friction fee moving through life by way of as much standardization as possible: the cutout does not fit in his suitcase) summarizes the themes of the movie in a succint way: the fakeness of the pictures perhaps related to the inauthenticity of family life; standardization, here presented as the standard and obligatory honeymoon pictures; the cut-out taken literally as a removing of oneself from the family, but not really; passively travelling and enjoying the joy of ‘having been there’ but again: not really; as well as the requirement that in order to use the cut-out, the camera should be close enough for it to frame the cut-out and the background in a reasonable believable way, resonating with the the theme of closeness and intimacy.
What about the second structural feature of Sennett’s intimate society? That when feelings are disclosed mayhem ensues? Zizek writes somewhere that ‘Another standard example of interpassivity is provided by the role of the “madman” within a pathologically distorted intersubjective link (say, a family whose repressed traumas explode in the mental breakdown of one of its members): when a group produces a madman, do they not shift upon him the necessity to passively endure the suffering which belongs to all of them?’
In a way Bingham in this madman. When his family is confronted with the trauma of a broken marriage before it even becomes a marriage it is Bingham who’s supposed to make it right. The naive reading of this as we can see in the movie is Bingham’s efforts to consolidate the two future spouses to get back together. That’s all fine of course. But what is more interesting and what takes us to interpassive suffering is Bingham’s own psychological response to these events. He awakes from his own dogmatic (intimacy is bad) slumber and decides to, entirely narcissistically, disclose his feelings for Vera. Of course this ends badly. When the fantasy of his idealized relation with Vera breaks, the confrontation is too much and Bingham regresses into interpassive suffering. By breaking the rules, the standard which made the fantasy possible in the first place Bingham takes upon him a responsibility. Marriage is such a fantasy as well. While Bingham breaks, his ‘bourgeois nuclear family’ gets to disavow as usual.














